Hey,

well im 14 and i am fat but i need some advice…i had a fight with one of my best friends and we didn’t talk for about half a year any way she came up to me and apologized but since then she has being insulting me at every chance she gets i don’t know what to do she keeps calling me fat and a midget and she keeps hitting me

help!!

oh your website has really inspired me to be happy with what i have

xxxMel

Honestly, I’d say to not put up with that crap. My ex-friend from high school did the same thing. She didn’t treat me with respect and always talked down to me. One thing I would say to do though is to talk to her about it. Start a conversation, and if she doesn’t listen to you and continues treating you that way, ditch her. She isn’t worth your time. Plus, violent friends probably aren’t the best…

i am 12 and i am obece wat can i do to lose weight i just wanna die plz hel me

wow… it’s okay! Trust me, you don’t want to die just because of your weight.. For heaven’s sake you’re only 12! I’m not going to recommend losing weight, nor will I tell you you are a horrible person for wanting to. It’s so much healthier to be comfortable with yourself the way you are. See the beauty in your own body rather than trying to fit into someone else’s. Losing weight won’t necessarily make you healthier. Trust your body, it’s yours. Listen to what your body is telling you it wants you to eat, and don’t be ashamed of eating. Ever. I just posted advice for another girl slightly older than you here, you can feel free to read (rather than me posting the same thing all over again).

Sorry if my posts are slightly off, I’m trying to get back into the posting groove.